The male to urge to procreate is one of the strongest things in earth. That being said, relationships are overrated. Nice, but overrated.
Watch your bro get raped in divorce court and then some more with alimony by his whore wife. Relationships are not worth killing yourself over.
A loving family is the greatest thing that will ever happen to you.
It is also the greatest legacy you will leave behind on this earth.
Be patient, be nice, make yourself a better person, and good thing eventually happen.
relationships are overrated
I feel this
> “But I say to the unmarried, and to the widows: It is good for them if they so continue…”
The redpill stuff with regards to women is IMO just a stepping stone, and a lot of frustrated guys get stuck there. It is very important to be aware of the pitfalls of dating but if you’re stuck in this MGTOW or hookup-only state of mind you’re never gonna grow as a man. I took the passport-bro route personally and I’m about to get married with a reasonable woman
Congratulations!! Marriage can be beautiful. In the Catholic faith it is a sacrament and will make you more holy.
Getting 2 people to believe and act as that is so is the battle. I’ve been married a long time and I’ve seen the best and most of it. I love my wife still and think she is the cutest thing in the world. Even after 20+ years I am endlessly fascinated with her.
All that being said, there is no way in hell I’ll ever get into another romantic relationship.
I’ve felt this way
but things change
also life is very much worth living single
> “tfw no gf”
Why wait? Just do it
Wait what lol
Someone tell him he should focus on himself rather than chicks, relationships can wait til he’s in his thirties. In the meantime, work on yourself.
Even though this guy is obviously being a wimp, I feel for a brother.
Society gives men a bunch of mixed messages with no good advice, and then wonders why so many good men aren’t out there meeting women.
When I was in college I felt like garbage because even though I knew I wasn’t looking, it sucked being alone in a strange city while one of my biological alarms was blaring. I deferred that gratification until later, but in the moment even if you’re doing it intentionally it still sucks a lot.
I wrote the second to last chapter of The Graysonian Ethic as “On Attraction” specifically because of this, because without good advice men will find themselves in a storm without a rudder.
Are you feeling better now?
Married with a kid and a pretty comfortable life, it’s been a long time since those days.
Happy for you
What a weak ass.
Lol so many fucking guys like that on reddit dude is crazy
he needs weed in his life… then buy a good whore for $25 bux. She might smell funny, so rub vicks vapor rub under yer nose.
