Hello everyone.
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Mask up, love one another, and stay alive for one more week.
Having massacred my guts via decades of alcohol abuse, I now enjoy having a panic attack every time I’m sick and something weird happens. I do not recommend alcoholism. It’s quite unfun.
I’ve been ill over the weekend and mostly just drinking Gatorade, because I can’t keep any food down. Today I had a bowel movement that came out blood red. Had a major meltdown until I remembered that I’d downed a few liters of red Gatorade since Thursday.
God I can imagine the panic. I’m happy you stopped drinking, and I’m proud of you for getting sober. You got this, and please get well soon
Did you by chance get yourself checked for long term complications? Maybe your stomach has some lingering issue. It’s just a thought, please don’t feel obliged to reply.
Hey loves 💙,
Just wanted to check in since my last post kinda got lost in the megathread. Things are still really rough here in Gorom Camp we’re trying so hard to clear hospital bills and find somewhere safe after our shelters got burned down.
I’m gonna keep replying to folks here with love so people know we’re not just here asking, we care too.
We still need about $825 to cover what’s left for safety, food, and medicine. I’ve updated my profile with a bit about what’s happening + my mutual aid link if anyone wants to help or share.
Honestly, every kind word or share right now keeps us going. Thank you so much for seeing us.
My mutual aid link is in my profile if you’re able to support or boost.
Sending so much love and strength to everyone trying to survive another week. Solidarity always. 🙏🏿
any USian adhd homies have tips for how to more efficiently track down meds when your pharmacy decides to nope out of carrying the shit that lets you function reasonably well? when there was a backlog last time i called a million pharmacies and they all told me they didn’t have any, is there a more efficient method than hitting these spots one by one?? i have a week and change to find a new spot which could be worse but im still tweaking about this
Unfortunately it will take a little leg work on your end, so there aren’t a ton of options available depending on the drug itself. If you’re getting them through a chain like Walgreens or CVS the pharmacist should be able to check stock for you at other stores and send your prescription there to be filled, but you’ll need to specifically ask them to do this (over the phone should be fine). If you’re getting them through places like big box stores (walmart, costco, kroger etc.) Your best bet is to sign up for notifications, either email or text. They should also be able to tell you if it’s in stock at other locations but you’ll probably have to call/go in person to get them to check/fill it. Last option I’m aware of are online pharmacies, like I know someone who uses ExpressScript to get meds mailed directly to them. They’ll also have notification options and a search function to see if your meds might be available or if shortages are happening. If you’re really concerned for missing days/needing extra definitely call your doc and ask if they can approve a 3-4 day “emergency” supply script to get you through a few days. Hope you can find what you need soon! (Also anyone else please chime in if you’ve had luck with something other than what I suggested.)
Just got back from my most recent foot surgery. It’s spread and the left one was worse, also they were meant to book me a double appointment but had only booked a single, so they couldn’t get as much done. They just did part of the left one today. So they’ve booked me three further appointments, July, August and Sept. July they can clean the worst of it and the next two will be for a final clean and so any hint of it returning can be cleaned before it spreads and hopefully that will finish it for good.
So now I’ve had to make another mutual aid post for help with that. People are going to get sick of me but I don’t know what else to do.
Because of touching it, and touching clothes the infection has touched etc, it has spread to my right hand now too. This isn’t the first time and it’s never been so bad with the hands. That’s just being treated with a topical ointment. But it’s disgusting and exhausting though, dealing with this. And going to a different hospital further away wasn’t easy, my landlady drove me in exchange for petrol money, thankfully someone came through on that. But the satnav didn’t help much with finding it and my landlady was pissed off about how long and difficult it was to find. I will have to book hospital transport for next time as the next appointment is also at the further hospital.
If people are sick of mutual aid posts they can block the comm, or they can block you if it really is just targeted at you (Unlikely). Asking for help that you need is more important than not “posting cringe”.
only thing im sick of is the situation youre forced in, friend. please try not to worry about posting too much! it’s shit, the way youre treated, and it’s not your fault this has gone on this long, it’s theirs. you’ve got enough on your plate, don’t post wary of haters. if any show up we’ll take em out back and shoot em for ya!
Thank you! I haven’t had any haters on here but I’ve had two on lemmy. One read a post of mine about my financial issues and then spent weeks sending me messages promising help, but never actually sent any. He had a lot of strikes against him for bad behaviour towards other users already so he finally got banned. Another person on lemmy responded to a post I made about how I feel su1c1d@l sometimes because of my financial situation. He said if I was really serious I would have done it already. He then sent me unsolicited messages giving me detailed instructions on how to obtain the necessary items to commit su1c1d£, and how to carry it out. Other people complained about these public messages and they were deleted but he wasn’t banned and is, in fact, a mod. It’s really disheartening when even people who are supposed to be our comrades behave like this. That’s why I’m always on edge and worried about posting aid requests (for instance a hater could get my email address and use it for some nefarious purpose) but I just have nowhere else to turn.
My partner is drunk again. I’m supposed to get up at 5am tomorrow to drive her to work. The same thing has happened for the past 2 or 3 weekends, and so far she still has a job, but her drinking has cost her more than half a dozen jobs in the past few years and her behaviour shows no signs of changing.
I’m growing more and more resentful because she doesn’t want to go through with any sort of addiction treatment. My own counsellor has offered to me to connect her with someone, and there’s addiction treatment on-demand available at the local hospital, but she just doesn’t want to do any of it.
I know that addiction is not as straightforward as just asking for help, but I’ve been out of work for more than a year and a half and can’t find anything, while she hops from job to job like this.
There are times when I just want a break from watching her self-destruct, but she’d probably be on the streets if she wasn’t living with me.
I have ADHD and am probably on the autism spectrum, and I know I’m not always easy to deal with. But she never tells me what she’s feeling or what she wants, and it feels like any effort I make to support her, or even just keep an eye on her to make sure she stays on the wagon, ends up as wasted energy. And it’s already all I can do to keep searching for work.
I achieved something vaguely human shaped. Well… Vaguely vaguely human shaped.
Yey
New Mega
thinking about cutting my hair short. i llike having longer hair when i dress up, but i never dress up anymore and the executive function means i dont brush it until it gets matted
BRB gonna try to art
