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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/stacko- on 2023-10-07 21:50:56.

I’ve kinda just been in shock and I think I kind of just need reassurance that I’ve done the right thing here.

I’m a huge football (soccer) fan, my boyfriend is not and I’ve known that from the beginning. I’ve barely brought it up to him because I know he doesn’t like it. But today my team won a game in the last minutes of the game and I was excited so I sent him a message saying my team won in the dying minutes of the game. He replied saying “You really misunderstood how little I care about football 😂”. I jokingly responded saying he can at least pretend to care about something I’m excitedly sharing with him. He then said “I really can’t even bring myself to feign interest 😅”.

That actually shocked me. Like what the hell? We then got into an argument because I said that’s such a rude thing to tell someone that you apparently love. It’s not like I asked for a kidney. I said he could’ve just said “oh that’s nice, hope you enjoyed it” and I would’ve been happy. He asked why he has to pretend to enjoy something and that he doesn’t appreciate me pushing my hobbies onto him. He said he’d rather be honest than pretend to care when he doesn’t. He also said “why are you attacking me? If I don’t want to do or talk about something it’s not a line to be blurred just because you want to”.

This has made me feel like he doesn’t even like let alone love me. I don’t think I should be in this relationship anymore. Someone please tell me im not overreacting.