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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/janabutter on 2023-10-08 06:18:17.

How do I (24f) get the strength to break up with my bf (25m) . I am unhappy most of the time. Ever since I met him I’ve been not myself, all I do is cry. He doesn’t treat me horribly but I feel like I’m mothering a child. I love him so much but I hate him. I wish I never met him. I don’t want to get into details but there’s alot of elements in our relationship that needs work. And I’m tired. All I do is fucking cry but I don’t have the strength to end it. He’s my first boyfriend, he’s my bestfriend and confidant. How can someone I consider my bestfriend make me feel this sad and unhappy? We also work together. All I know is that this man should not make me cry 2-3 times a week. I should not be this depressed and this sad. I lost myself by being in this relationship. But if we end it I’ll have no one, not my family (we aren’t close), I don’t have a lot of close friends and they are in relationships. I just don’t know what to do