• 7u5k3n@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    He’s using too much of the whip. The top should just barely be striking her with the tip of the whip

    I realize this is porn and she’s the one on display… but this guy is really bad at using that whip.

    Not to mention she’s fighting him the entire time so he’s having to get a stroke in when / how he can.

    • SirIrius@lemmy.worldOP
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      9 months ago

      That is Dr. Lomp from Graias, and he is known for some of the most extreme pain porn around. I don’t doubt that whip lashing actually hurt. Have you ever actually used a real multiplaited whip?

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        9 months ago

        Yes I have and I have no idea who.that is. This is my only viewing of him and what he does. I’m sure he has much more experience than what I do with whips, but in my temporary viewing it struck me as improper play and felt unsafe.

        Glad to know he’s a professional and knows what he is doing.

        • AnaisRim@lemmynsfw.comM
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          9 months ago

          Hey, I’ll just say, not as mod but just to say, being a real life kinkster is different from being into kinky porn. I’ve lived the life a long time. I respect your concern for safety.

          Look, complaining about the porn sucking is rarely a good way to get porn more to your liking. May I suggest you post something you like better? Lomp is not everyone’s cup of tea by any stretch.

          Sorry for the pile on.

          • 7u5k3n@lemmy.world
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            9 months ago

            Haha no worries about the pile on… It’s the internet where everything is made up and the points don’t matter.

            I didn’t mean for it to come across as complaining… I was scrolling “all” this popped up auto played and all I saw was a dude sorta kinda hitting a girl with a whip. I’ve done some moderate whipping, I’ve seen the man who wrote the book on whips in the dungeon throw them irl… I e taken classes local and regionally… this didn’t look like a consensual bdsm whipping session that I’d seen.

            Fortunately… The good folk here informed me that this is this dudes MO and that he’s well known for this type of play. I was unaware. But now I know… And knowing is half the battle as they say.

            I realize this is porn… and had I taken a beat (haaa) and realized both folks in this are paid actors. I wouldn’t have posted… as this isn’t my local play space, my local fet community or my local discord.

            Thanks for the comment back btw.

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      9 months ago

      Just because the sub knows what they are getting into doesn’t mean they need to stoicly accept punishment, especially when they are being struck so hard. She is literally bruising after the first two strokes if you look carefully.

      I think you have a misconception that all whips are bullwhips with the purpose of breaking cattle and causing tissue lacerations, but this isn’t Indiana Jones. Part of the expertise in using a whip is knowing how much force to use. If you’re breaking skin right off the bat you’re not using it correctly. He is using the whip just fine.

      • AnaisRim@lemmynsfw.comM
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        9 months ago

        I own two whips. One is a plain neoprene lash whip which is what I use regularly, if such a thing is to be used. The other is a handmade 6 plait roo leather stockwhip, and it’s gorgeous. Absolutely suitable for cattle, and is used mostly as a display piece or for cracking at parties. 😆

        The truth is OP is right Lomp hit nearer to the handle than would be done for a maximum lashing. OP is wrong that it was because Lomp doesn’t know what he’s doing or just because it’s fake porn or whatever. That’s a real whip and the model is a real person and he’s keeping things legal. Actual torture - like actual snuff - is frowned upon by authorities.

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          The handmade whip sounds super cool. I’m not knowledgeable about leatherworking, but how difficult was that to make?

          Edit : I misinterpreted handmade as homemade 😂

          That’s a real whip and the model is a real person and he’s keeping things legal. Actual torture - like actual snuff - is frowned upon by authorities.

          I actually typed an argument about crossing the threshold between consenting adults doing kinky things and illegal and torturous activities but removed that bit because it’s a bit tough to define where the line is and I figured it would fall on deaf ears. It’s important to always be mindful of this though for more extreme scenes.

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            I didn’t make the whip! No. At the time I lived in Australia and there was a well known guy who made whips for actual cattle ranchers but had a side hustle making kink toys too. I think kinksters found him and when he realized it he just accepted them as another income stream. Anyway, that’s how I got it.

            • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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              Yeah I realized my mistake shortly after posting! I mistook handmade for homemade in your comment.

              I’m glad he leaned into the opportunity. I have to imagine kinksters and collectors likely will pay more than a rancher so it probably works out quite well for him if the work is quality!

      • 7u5k3n@lemmy.world
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        9 months ago

        I commented else where but the gist is… I have no idea who he is or what he does… this is all I’ve seen of him ever.

        I’m glad to know he’s a professional and knows what he is doing.

        • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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          9 months ago

          I also couldn’t have told you who this is, so I don’t fault you for that. Making blanket assumptions will ruffle feathers though.

          Really the important takeaway to understand is that it’s supposed to hurt, but not be literal torture.