• chaogomu@kbin.social
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      2 years ago

      There might be a link between the bans from dating apps and the “not been in a long-term relationship”…

    • OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world
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      2 years ago

      My wife’s best friend has been banned a couple times and is waiting to appeal her tinder ban again.

      Although often justifiable based on the ways these guys have acted/spoke to her, it’s usually because she’s super ruthless in her response. A guy got mad she wasn’t interested in just being a booth call after she said she’s there for dates too, said she was after a free meal (paying hadn’t come up yet, and she always pays for herself unless a guy insists) and so she tore into him. And she’s brutal. Another had ghosted her after rescheduling on the date twice and saying stuff came up and that he’s busy (days after the fact, no check in or nothing) and so she told him that’s some horse shit and that he’s a little bitch that needs to get his life in order if he’s gonna stand somebody up twice after begging for a second chance.

      She definitely could be nicer sometimes, but from what I’ve read from her it’s no different than how I see a lot of dudes talk on there, I think those guys just got their feelings hurt more than standard tinder girls do.

    • Clbull@lemmy.world
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      2 years ago

      I used to go to school with a lady that was perma banned from Tinder last year. My guess is she replied to creepy/perverted messages with enough hostility that they yeeted her straight off the platform.

      • Buglefingers@lemmy.world
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        6 months ago

        A friend of mine said she got banned because she shared a link. It was a link to some gif or something. I almost got banned because I had a picture of myself as a kid on there and apparently people felt the need to report me over that

    • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
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      2 years ago

      If they don’t have a license that’s a problem that they made, if they don’t have a job that’s probably because they drink too much and are unreliable (that may also be why they don’t have a license) and if they are an alcoholic that’s probably their core problem.

      All of anons issues are their own, it’s not society’s fault they’re in this situation. Although I am sure they would not agree.

      • pinkdrunkenelephants@lemmy.world
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        2 years ago

        Not having a license isn’t actually an issue; you can save a lot of money by not driving a car.

        This guy is probably just depressed and the lack of sympathy and support from others is only exacerbating and perpetuating the problem. People like him need love and support from external sources to be able to heal their inner wounds and fix their problems.

        Life stuff like what he’s listing is never the actual source of the problem.