…or nieces or nephews, etc. I’m having these questions come up and I’m torn on this. On one hand my experience has been like no other- got a chance to see and do so many things, forged the best friendships, housing/education/medical benefits through the VA afterwards. But those cons - the higher odds for experiencing abuse, witnessing or performing horrifying things, etc…all the stuff that comes with lifelong damage…

What’s everyone’s take on this? Would you recommend the military for your kids?

  • Ejh3k@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I always first recommend joining a trade union, it’s great money and they’ll be making way more than peers by the time they get out of college and usually not getting a job in the field they studied in unless it’s an incredibly high demand job. Salary ceiling is lower than an advanced degree requiring job, but you get there a lot quicker.

    Then I recommend college if they can get it easily. If they can get a degree without going wildly into debt, good. If they can get their masters, even better. If getting a masters, undergraduate school doesn’t matter. But if a bachelor’s degree will do, go to the best place you can afford.

    Otherwise, join the service. Really think about what you want to get out of the service. If you want to get job training, look for a job that is similar to what you want to do for a living. Personally, I want to roll around in the dirty and shoot guns and travel the world. So I went combat arms, rolled around in the dirt, shot guns, and traveled the world. But my job had nearly zero relevance to any civilian jobs. But I got out and went to college. And after graduated and bounced around do all sorts of jobs that had nothing to do with my degree. And ultimately, I am working back at my alma mater on the grounds crew taking care of campus. And I love it.

    With everything, it’s what you make of it.

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      11 months ago

      I can second trades. I did make more than my peers, even though I didn’t get an education. They caught up eventually, naturally, but by then i was making my own schedule, doing something new everyday (: worth it.