You know, like “always split on 18,” or “having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life.”

What’s that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

  • weeeeum@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    It does make you wiser. You may learn how to better deal with your emotions or feelings. Or how to avoid the situation in the future.

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      3 months ago

      Nah, usually just more trauma after a certain point, if its anywhere near even the hyperbolic description of “Kill.”

      I’ve been through enough. A mild to moderate amount of life challenges will be plenty going forward.

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        3 months ago

        Yeah, it’s really best to learn by observation than direct pain lol, but some of us are too stubborn for that.

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        3 months ago

        Yeah, Where can I hit the buzzer to denote I’m done.

        I’ve been through enough already, cut it the fuck out. I dont need more. If it made me stronger I’d already beat the hulk in fucking arm wrestling at this point.