I called some people I’m seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that’s more “serious”. My friend suggested calling them lovers.
I’m emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).
I’m looking for a word that’s unassuming, but clearly says “I’m not single” so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.
Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.
I once panicked introducing a friend and said “lover”. Don’t think I could have made everyone involved more awkward if I had tried.
I like primary. Secondary sounds like you’re ranking people however.
Let me know if you figure it out. Not that I’m participating any longer, but I am curious.