It does feel lonely on fedi as trans guy
Not just as trans guy, but also the one who isn’t that much interested in tech (I can learn something for my amateur website, but that’s it).
It’s also kinda interesting that I used to have even some aversion to learning tech due to family trauma (don’t force your own goals on your kids) and misogyny in IT spaces, which makes makes it a bit harder to have joy in learning it (and also it’s fucking hard, I need explanations like I’m 5 or I won’t understand). Though among my all-transmasc family members I’m still the one most interested in IT, LOL.
And basically that’s why I find bluesky more appealing to me lately, simply because I see variety of interests and more transmascs. If I see memes and shitposts in trans communities on fedi, they’re oriented mostly to transfems into tech (which I don’t mind at all, I’m just not the target audience). Despite all of that, I will continue to actively use fedi at least to be the one who makes some variety here :D
Hi. I’m transfem and lurk here (posted once I think). I want this space to grow for y’all too. I’ve got a bunch of my own ideas of why I think there’s a disproportionate transfem presence on Lemmy, and in online spaces in general, but I won’t get into that right now.
I just wanted to say I (and I think I can say “we”) want you here. The rare transmasc meme that goes by on !egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone or !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone always gets a smile out of me.
I struggle convincing a lot of my masc friends to join Lemmy because they really don’t rely on online spaces the same way I do, but I will keep working to convince them. If we want the platform to survive, the early adopters need to go through a period of kind of blah user counts. This happened broadly, but it also happened with specific and niche communities.
Stick to BlueSky if you’re liking it, but please check in here now and again!! Hopefully it only gets better with time!
Lots of love from your trans siblings ❤️ 🏳️⚧️ ✊