• AshamedWarship@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      1 year ago

      I understand what you are trying to say but you are laying it a bit harsh. It’s true there are more aspects to a relationship then sex but sexual intimacy and compatability are still factors. Of course I’ve used toys to help my partner but when she says “I want to feel you” it’s a struggle. Also implying that money fixes relationships smh

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        1 year ago

        I’m not implying it. Money absolutely, factually fixes some problems in a relationship. You seem to be romanticizing things in ways that aren’t helping you. If you want to be romantic then save it for things that are beneficial instead of romanticizing her feeling you or pretending that love isn’t influenced by stability and resources.

        My post might seem harsh because I’m not trying to be nice. I’m trying to show you a way of thinking that is absolutely valid that you could utilize to your benefit. The only thing holding you back is you. Not your penis size.