• Very_Bad_Janet@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      Thanks for the archive link. From the article:

      A person goes to college, works a few years, meets somebody and doesn’t want to rush into anything—maybe wants to pay off student loans first or save for a house, which takes a few years or more.

      Maybe? Most people I know in this scenario wait until they have their financial lives in order (have enough money to save a little something after paying for all of their expenses including student loans) before even getting married. If they can’t save they are typically not getting married. And then they try to save more before buying a place before considering having one child. By the time they reach a stable financial level they may have aged themselves out of a larger family.

      The only people I know who are having kids in their 20s or earlier into their relationships are having unplanned pregnancies.