Biting makes kissing more interesting, I’ll stand by that point. And I’m not an american’t. There needs to be a tiny of bit of pain, or pressure, or conflict to keep a relationship fresh imo. If you’re making out it should be 90% dancing tongues, 10% aggression. That’s my personal formula that I think keeps it fresh. Translates pretty well to sex too I think. 90% cooperative, 10% conflict. This can apply to BDSM play too because that always (should) be cooperative between both people’s limits. Maybe it’s better to phrase it as 100% cooperative but ALSO 10% adversarial. Any more than that and it’s getting into hate fucking but any less and its just not as engaging.
Biting makes kissing more interesting, I’ll stand by that point. And I’m not an american’t. There needs to be a tiny of bit of pain, or pressure, or conflict to keep a relationship fresh imo. If you’re making out it should be 90% dancing tongues, 10% aggression. That’s my personal formula that I think keeps it fresh. Translates pretty well to sex too I think. 90% cooperative, 10% conflict. This can apply to BDSM play too because that always (should) be cooperative between both people’s limits. Maybe it’s better to phrase it as 100% cooperative but ALSO 10% adversarial. Any more than that and it’s getting into hate fucking but any less and its just not as engaging.