Hi, thanks for the detailed response! I do agree that the community seems to be competing with c/domesticdiscipline and their admin who is very active and knowlegable from the look of things, we did briefly discuss working together at some point. I feel this community is more specific than c/domesticdiscipline, though I admit I do not have a clear plan for what I want to do here going forward.

Regarding the sidebar, yes I agree that I need to update and work on that. Any discussion relating to spanking (though ofc not against minors) is welcome and discussions/questions should be encouraged. Il have a think on what I can do to try and encourage these types of posts, and if you have any suggestions for changes/additions I would love to hear what you think. I mainly discuss spanking content on discord, using posts and communities is rather new for me.

LGBTQIA+…wow Im not sure how I overlooked that, for context im Ace, poly and am supporting my partner while they transition. No sort of discrimination or transphobia is going to be accepted here. Il write a new sidebar to make these points clear and hopefully show that I intend this to be a safe community.

The community is heavily m/f and f/f leaning, that’s just down to what my primary tastes are honestly. x/m is not restricted, neither is any combination of gender. A new sidebar will hopefully make this clear.

Thank you for your thoughts btw! Its really nice for you to put so much effort into helping me here