You’ll get downvoted for that but I’d do exactly the same. I have no intention of offending or insulting anybody. Irrespective of their gender, race or sexuality.

I contribute code and that’s it. My genitalia is irrelevant and its the same for anybody else. I wouldn’t even know who anybody else was unless they made a point of telling me.

So if telling me to do what any decent human does is first thing I encounter its a warning that the project is a hive of drama. There are plenty of other projects that can use my development time.