I mean, these are the traits that turn porn into a bad addiction and form those “sigma”/misogyny mindsets. The idea is to not have a “vs” but to identify the two as separate, and find someone that is fulfilling in your life as opposed to fulfilling a fictional fantasy. Porn actresses do this for money. They don’t do it for you, or to be a role model.
https://thesearemyboobs.com/?l=11 that website gives me hope that the Dead Internet Theory doesn’t exist