I don’t believe you care to read, a reddit post, a response to your ramblings or a manual. You revert to insults, talking down to others and claiming it’s appropriate because you want something.
Your expectations are not met, take it out on friends, not strangers. They might be more understanding.
I think the sentiment is that you omitted something, knowingly or not. So, instead of trying to defend yourself in your actions, take a look at what happened and perhaps that will be your “A-ha” moment.
So, don’t take a personally, but very personal ;)