OutrageousHairdo [he/him]

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Cake day: January 14th, 2021

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  • Also, while I despise “How to make friends and influence people” conversational tactics self help drivel, there are ways to converse that make people like you more. I won’t go into depth, but basically, if you can find the one thing that someone won’t shut up about, something that gets them really animated, just listen to them talk, ask them insightful questions, be an active listener, and actively converse. Don’t be a yes-man, offer your own input, but do engage them.


  • Easy answer to human connection? Get a hobby. Don’t have any? Force yourself to get one! Don’t pretend to be into something you despise, but get out of your comfort zone. That could be working on cars, playing an instrument, singing, dancing, learning a language, reading books, woodworking, camping and outdoorsmanship, any of a number of sports… Hobbies are just a cheat code because if you’re meeting someone for a hobby group you automatically have something in common that you’re both interested in. Look for local meetups, even if your hobby is something as niche as like, playing Super Smash Bros Melee, you’re likely to find at least a few meetups. Talk to people, hit it off, if you make a friend, get their contacts (e.g. phone number, Discord account, whatever) and then a little later, ask if they’d want to drop by and hang out, or maybe go to a restaurant together, or catch a movie- etc. It may be a little daunting to be the person who makes the offer, but you should try and be outgoing about it. This might sound kinda stilted, but with practice it’ll become more natural. This also applies at least partially to dating, by the way- a partner is, in my mind, just a friend you want to keep a little closer than the rest.



  • It’s usually not a pretty process, but generally if you talk to whoever you have debt with, if you work out a plan to pay something in, like a few hundred bucks a month, they won’t try and collect on their debts forcibly. I worked in a different branch of the debt industry briefly - primarily credit card debt, mostly small business owners racking up debt on their platinum cards or whatever - so take that with a grain of salt. I know there are different repayment plans specifically for student loans - look into that and maybe talk with someone before calling in.

    You really do want to take care of it ASAP - I don’t know if they’ve capitalized your interest or not yet, but if they haven’t, do everything possible to avoid that happening! Student loan interest from my understanding only accrues on the initial borrowed sum, as opposed to compounding interest, but if you become delinquent they can capitalize your interest! When they capitalize your interest, any unpaid interest you owed beforehand becomes a part of that base sum, and you have to start paying interest on that interest, which can potentially be horrendous.

    https://studentaid.gov/manage-loans/repayment/plans












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    6 months ago

    They’re a motor vehicle part that improves a car’s emissions. They’re on the underside of the car, as they are a part of its exhaust system. As other commenters have explained, they contain a lot of rare and expensive metals like platinum and palladium, making them quite valuable. As a result, there are many cases where people will go under parked cars and cut them off while the driver is away, then sell them to less scrupulous buyers for a quick buck. This, of course, fucks up the car, hence the post.