I don’t think you can do anything, she already said no and you didn’t find any reviews or ads

Do you have a link? Or is it not on Android?

They do have r/amplife on there. I watch both and use the links here. I agree though

Some do, just go in for a massage and check the menu. I found the booksy app with haircut and massage places and you could search by service type so was able to look for brazilian (male)

You would just text the temporary number in that case and try to make an appointment, then ask location, then do more research if you can. Be wary of scams and keep whatever information you can private. If you don’t know anything other than that temporary number you can’t really read reviews and verify they are real. However I would think those types of ads are somewhat safer depending on what you are looking for. I think some of them are agencies which can be good or bad

Not sure but I would presume what is common is either inside most likely, or when you’re close say so and pull out and ask for hj or other finish, which is probably more common if you have trouble finishing with a rubber on.