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  • b9999998@lemmynsfw.comOPMtoChastity@lemmynsfw.comwith tetherspout
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    Insertion/removal is pretty easy once you understand and experienced the mechanics of how it works. Of course the first few times, it may be scary - you’ll want to be relaxed about and take your time, but I can now install or remove it within 30- 60 secs - all with only the aid of a small strand of floss (will try to find a link of instructional video, or make one). initially, I also had harbored doubts about losing the TS or the retainer inside, but trust me, its 99.9% impossible to lose it unless you are possibly doing some weird manipulation of your cock during play.

    start with a little lube

    Insert the TS barrel flange end at an angle

    Insert the retaining ring sideways and use your finger to push it and the TS barrel fully in

    Use fingers to gently rotate and manipulate the retaining ring onto the TS barrel tip. Then use the floss to pull back out the barrel through the retaining ring


    Removal is the opposite procedure - be sure to have a long enough floss string. Use fingers or a small sound/rod to push the TS barrel through the retaining ring to disengage, rotate/manipulate the retaining ring sideways so that you can pull out the disengaged pieces using the floss


    Not related to chastity, but here’s a fun way to play, to swing and walk around with


  • b9999998@lemmynsfw.comOPMtoChastity@lemmynsfw.comwith tetherspout
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    Well start with this about the origins of the TS - https://tetherproducts.com/Pages/TopTier/FAQs and Tips.html

    Since you are familiar with sounding and urethral insertion, the key is to find the right TS size - you want the size of the retaining ring to be 2mm or more than the max size sound you can insert. So if can sound 10mm, choose the TS with 12 mm retaining ring (which is what will keep the TS barrel from popping back out after insertion. The cheap Amazon version (TERNENCE Stainless Steel Catheters Kit Male Sound Dilator Inserts Plug for Men, 8 Sizes Optional G209 (9mm) https://a.co/d/6Dogp59) is a good place to start for experimentation and trying out the right sizing. Most people associate cages and chastity together, but in my case, the TS combined with other toys like chains or small locks (sans the cage) works totally well and allows for lots of other play possibilities like https://lemmynsfw.com/post/16160766













  • Literary words are so powerful…

    passage from “Story of O” re this scene:

    “So give us your answer,” he said. “Do you consent?”

    Finally she said that she did. Gently he helped her up and, having sat down on the big sofa, made her kneel down alongside him facing the sofa, on which reclined her outstretched arms, her bust, and her head. Her eyes were closed, and an image she had seen several years before flashed across her mind: a strange print portraying a woman kneeling, as she was, before an armchair. The floor was of tile, and in one corner a dog and child were playing. The woman’s skirts were raised, and standing close beside her was a man brandishing a handful of switches, ready to whip her. They were all dressed in sixteenth-century clothes, and the print bore a title which she found disgusting: Family Punishment.

    With one hand, René took her wrists in a viselike grip, and with the other lifted her skirts so high that she could feel the muslin lining brush her cheek. He caressed her flanks and drew Sir Stephen’s attention to the two dimples that graced them, and the softness of the furrow between her thighs. Then with that same hand he pressed her waist, to accentuate further her buttocks, and ordered her to open her knees wider. She obeyed without saying a word. The honors René was bestowing upon her body, and Sir Stephen’s replies, and the coarseness of the terms the men were using so overwhelmed her with a shame as violent as it was unexpected that the desire she had felt to be had by Sir Stephen vanished and she began to wish for the whip as a deliverance, for the pain and screams as a justification. But Sir Stephen’s hands pried open her again, caressed her until she moaned. She was vanquished, undone, and humiliated that she had moaned.

    “I leave you to Sir Stephen,” René then said. “Remain the way you are, he’ll dismiss you when he sees fit.”

    How often had she remained like this at Roissy, on her knees, offered to one and all? But then she had always had her hands bound together by the bracelets, a happy prisoner upon whom everything was imposed and from whom nothing was asked. Here it was through her own free will that she remained half naked, whereas a single gesture, the same that would have sufficed to bring her back to her feet, would also have sufficed to cover her. Her promise bound her as much as had the leather bracelets and chains. Was it only the promise? And however humiliated she was, or rather because she had been humiliated, was it not somehow pleasant to be esteemed only for her humiliation, for the meekness with which she surrendered, for the obedient way in which she opened?






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