niph [she/her]

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Cake day: August 4th, 2023

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  • I remember as a kid doing Beijing - Changsha in 2 nights/3 days on the old bunk bed trains. It was kinda fun tbh because you stopped for a while at the bigger stations and you could buy street food from the vendors on the platform. But being able to do it in half a day now is so sweet. My parents live in Guangzhou now and they can see my grandparents who are still in Hunan any weekend they want (and they can visit). It’s really awesome how it’s enabled families to see each other more.




  • Tales of having a lib fiancé pt 2648

    Last night he tried to tell me that western countries should enact laws which allow them to seize assets of individuals and companies to pay for damages their country has done (like Russia in Ukraine) because “then the laws would bind them as well and western companies would have to act more responsibly / lobby their governments to not destroy things in other countries to avoid having their assets seized” and that it could also be used to punish companies that cause pollution etc.

    When I told him the west would only ever use this tool as a cudgel to defend imperialism he was like “wow weird that I’m more left than you on this” because apparently the state seizing assets = leftism and how could I support nationalising industries and corporations but not this. He wanted us to ignore realpolitik and argue on an idealist basis only

    Anyway I told him fundamentally he needs to realise that there is no “fix” for capitalism and we need to remove the private profit incentive and then fell asleep before he could respond lol

    (Pls no responses telling me to leave him we are very happy)










  • Sorry to hear things are rough comrade. I saw you spoke about depression, but it could also be worth looking into if you have any underlying conditions like attention or sleep issues. Your description of college life sounds a lot like mine was and if I had known about ADHD back then I feel like my life trajectory would be very different. Not that I think everyone has it or anything! But always worth looking to see if there might be something deeper causing depressive symptoms. Hope things improve soon!