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  • safetyaccount1@lemmy.worldOPtoUnsent Letters@lemmy.worldTo My Dearest Daughter
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    1 year ago

    I was hoping for a happier ending to your story. Isn’t that what we’re told in the movies? That every story ends happily? We all know that’s not the case. Life is not always what we want it to be. My mom’s favorite saying was that she never promised a rose garden. My brother used that statement the other day to my sister. My sister not being in the best situation right now. The good news is that your story hasn’t ended. Your son is in his 20’s. I remember when I was in my 20’s. I was cocky. Feeling self sufficient, not needing anyone. The minute my first marriage failed in my 30’s, I ran back to my mother and father for consolation and help in torment, crying on their shoulders. They were there with open arms, accepting me and ready to help me heal, unconditionally. I sought solace in my friends that were there 100% to support me. What I’m trying to say is that it’s not too late for you and your son. I’m not sure how you can approach this in the right way but I’m sure you’ll receive the guidance on how to do that. Or maybe he will come to you the same way I went to my parents in my desperation. Either way I have a feeling it will work out for you. Always be open and receptive to him. I wish you the best, my friend.



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    1 year ago

    I feel your pain. It must be tough serving your country only to find out that she took your child and did all these horrible things.

    My ex approached this differently by paying people to make my life miserable for the last 10 years. She interfered with my relationships, drained my bank account, refused to help support our child, and she created constant turmoil in my life. Recently I see her ramping up on brain washing my daughter. Much of this was with court sanctioned actions and the funding from her father.

    I do hope your relationship with your son is now on good standing.




  • safetyaccount1@lemmy.worldOPtoUnsent Letters@lemmy.worldTo My Dearest Daughter
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    For those that might be interested. This will be my journal going forward. Aside from accusing me of sexual abuse, her mom (and her family) have done everything possible to eliminate me as being anything of importance to our daughter’s life. I will be referencing the past and the future to journal the things that her mom has done to make the father-daughter relationship difficult. I know one day our daughter may want to see what her mother has done. I will show her if she starts to ask questions.

    I am not your person. I am not your ex. The chances that you know me is almost impossible. If you do use this as evidence in court I will pursue a cease and desist and/or restraining order. At which point I will seek full custody for harassment and file criminal charges for computer and phone hacking under 18 U.S. Code § 1030.