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  • In 13 year vet of Grindr, I consider myself a power user, more hookups, hang outs, and friends made than I can count.

    You got have more discriminating taste number one. You gotta be mad when these guys reveal that they are losers. Open door policy and roommates watching TV? He’s a bitch boy who isn’t even in control of his own bedroom. You need to look on these people with disgust. Carplay is a similar red flag.

    Once you figured out somebody is disingenuous, a loser, or otherwise skeevy you have to block them. Don’t engage, call them names, try to talk them into something else, argue, anything, just block and move on.

    Grindr is a fucked up meat market, you either fuck or get fucked, play or get played. If you’re into hookups you gotta stay one step ahead of these fucks because they will take advantage of you and leave you feeling shitty. you gotta have strict boundaries and standards and you have to bounce people the second they don’t live up to your expectations. Instead of feeling horrible about being mistreated you will have blocked the problematic people and you will have more time to pursue the ones who are actually worth it

    There’s plenty of great sex to be had on Grindr but you won’t get to have any of it if you let losers fuck you over in the rain. Only you can make the determination that you deserve better than that



  • Dang for me I feel like weed isn’t working until I start getting a little paranoid. Like I should be having a low grade anxiety attack in the background or I’ll feel like the weed wasn’t shit. I get off on nails-on-chalkboard real abrasive feelings but to each their own.

    While it did help a little weed didn’t cure my depression but it start me down the path of doing other drugs that did (MDMA, LSD, DMT). From 23 to 30 I repeatedly blasted my brains with psychedelics and went on longer stimulant benders. I wish I could tell you there was some kind of model for this thing but its a crap shoot as far as I can tell, your results may vary

    For me I started as very insecure and socially anxious. The drugs lowered my inhibitions and I learned to be more socially savvy, it unblocked everything that was making me bad at people stuff, being bad at navigating social situations and relationships was making my material reality poor, poor material reality making me depressed.

    Once I got over my insecurities and got my social confidence up i was easily able to network/navigate to friendlier shores, this cascade of improving myself improves my situation improves myself improves my situation etc etc.

    At least taking your coworkers advice to smoke weed shows you’re trying to do something about your depression. There’s lots of MFers who won’t try anything new to get out of their depression, if you’re trying new things and taking advice I think you’re gonna make it eventually













  • My wife also has advanced degrees in economics, she’s a senior economist professionally and has also studied world history indepth. She disagrees with your assessment and thinks a vanguard and a socialist state are necessary intermediaries to get any kind of lasting libertarian anarchism.

    I could easily find 100+ economists with better credentials who disagree with both you and my wife so what’s the point of jerking off your qualifications? If you have something persuasive to say just say it; vaguely telling us why you’re qualified is weak as hell. Why don’t you post your resume or link to any of the books you’ve published if you’re such an expert?