I feel that downvotes serve an important purpose both in keeping out spam, but also in preserving the many-niches architecture common in porn. Without downvotes even more work will be put onto mods in order to make sure the content posted is relevant to the communities its being posted too. Take c/Hotwife which has recently had a few postings that have 0 to do with hotwifing. Allowing downvotes is an imperfect solution, but I think an important one.

My partner and I are in a Stag/Vixen dynamic, so the humiliation aspects of Cuckqueaning is not really for us. In a previous relationship I had a casual sex partner who liked giving head, and she always tried to get me to compare her to my ex which made me hella uncomfortable and led to me no longer seeing her. I just don’t like putting people down in that way. More passive degradation, like making the cuckquean eat a load out of the cuckcake I like though, so long as the cuckquean gets off on it too

My partner and I had a bit of an anal night a week or so back. I incorporated a little orgasm denial game into the scene as well, after I had begun playing with them and getting them close, I put a video we recorded of them giving a third a blowjob and told them that they weren’t allowed to cum, until they had made him cum in the video. I made them struggle to contain it and because I am very familiar with the video when it was getting close I played into their praise kink by telling them it was a good thing they were so eager to please and had finished him so quickly. After that we put away the videos and stepped up the anal play with toys until we had some just the tip anal sex.

Other than that I have been working on a bit of an erotica featuring us for them to read.

I tend to go for gif content from small creators. My tastes are a bit specific and not well served though. I like captioned gifs, but the ones I’ve been seeing lately are so godawful I’ve been rethinking my sources. That is my go to for a “help me get to sleep wank,” but if I’m craving deep satisfaction it is my partner every time. We have a dynamic where we like to record and its so much better than anything I could find online.