Sorry if I struck a nerve, I was joking, but it is kind of the theme of the post…
If you want actual advice, I’ve found that some well executed tongue-play sets the mood and loosens things up quite nicely and maybe have some toys to play with ready as well. The reality is though that if it’s a hard line for your partner and they aren’t willing to compromise you’re in a tough spot.
Lol, thanks for the advice. At my age, if im not already aware that preheating an oven is the best way to cook, I’ve got no business near a lady’s anus anyway, I’d wager. The reality appears to be that I’m just attracted to the types of women who aren’t interested in anal. I’m fine with it; vaginal sex is the most incredible thing I’ve experienced, and I’m not greedy.
Edit also, apologies, I’ve never heard anal rape referrd to as “cancun surprise”, and as such didnt make the association with the post title. Youre good.
Referencing your edit: I don’t think it’s a widely used term tbh and if it is I’m willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that’s just life. I mostly commented that because of your “just the tip” comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who’s inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it’s a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you’re in pain.
I think 2 of 3 were nervousness issues, despite both of our attempts to calm nerves and warm up everything. The 3rd was just you small of an asshole, definitely. I though I was gonna tear her open and tbh it hurt me too. And she was def relaxed lol. She was more disappointed than me. Turns out there IS such a thing as too small of a butthole. She showed me her poops lmao they looked like spaghetti noodles compared to mine… TMI, I know, haha.
Yikes, that sounds rough and definitely like there was a medical issue at play. As someone who’s girthy I know the struggle and just know I’m rooting for you on number 4 friend!
Ah yes anal rape joke. Classic
Sorry if I struck a nerve, I was joking, but it is kind of the theme of the post…
If you want actual advice, I’ve found that some well executed tongue-play sets the mood and loosens things up quite nicely and maybe have some toys to play with ready as well. The reality is though that if it’s a hard line for your partner and they aren’t willing to compromise you’re in a tough spot.
Lol, thanks for the advice. At my age, if im not already aware that preheating an oven is the best way to cook, I’ve got no business near a lady’s anus anyway, I’d wager. The reality appears to be that I’m just attracted to the types of women who aren’t interested in anal. I’m fine with it; vaginal sex is the most incredible thing I’ve experienced, and I’m not greedy.
Edit also, apologies, I’ve never heard anal rape referrd to as “cancun surprise”, and as such didnt make the association with the post title. Youre good.
Referencing your edit: I don’t think it’s a widely used term tbh and if it is I’m willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that’s just life. I mostly commented that because of your “just the tip” comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who’s inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it’s a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you’re in pain.
I think 2 of 3 were nervousness issues, despite both of our attempts to calm nerves and warm up everything. The 3rd was just you small of an asshole, definitely. I though I was gonna tear her open and tbh it hurt me too. And she was def relaxed lol. She was more disappointed than me. Turns out there IS such a thing as too small of a butthole. She showed me her poops lmao they looked like spaghetti noodles compared to mine… TMI, I know, haha.
Yikes, that sounds rough and definitely like there was a medical issue at play. As someone who’s girthy I know the struggle and just know I’m rooting for you on number 4 friend!
i mean not ACTUAL spaghetti… lmao and thanks