Hi I’m just wondering how you guys keep your cage close to your body. With mine I end up getting too excited and the whole device gets pushed far away from my body. Ive tried using string but its not helping as much as I’d like. I’d love to hear some of you guys tips for newcomers as well.

  • WallsToTheBalls@lemmynsfw.com
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    11 months ago

    So in my experience it’s all about fit, primarily ring size. If it’s getting pushed away from your body it’s because there’s a little bit of the base of your dick that can still get hard.

    For me, I’m on the bigger side so I had to go one ring size lower than I expected, and get a longer tube than expected. I also have some straps that I wear in my sleep to keep things in place.

    It can take a while to find a good chastity cage. The cobra models from kink3d and it’s imitators have been the best I’ve tried

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      11 months ago

      Okay yeah it is a struggle to to get it all in since I was getting hard while trying to speedrun shoving it in ( but I have been able to get it right to the end twice now). I have a bunch of ring sizes so I can go a step lower and I’ll see if that will help. Yeah I think I need to wait till I get softer before I try to put it in again. Those kink3d cages are crazy expensive for my taste. For now id rather see what works using cheap knockoffs. Thanks for the advice those cobra cages look really sexy so I’ll give that a shot at some point if I can find a cheap knockoff.

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    11 months ago

    Yeah, probably too large of a tube. When your soft, it should basically be hugging your girth with maybe a few mm of space at the front to touching the tip of your penis. Sometimes you shrink a little compared to average, so its OK to see a bit of space, but that shouldn’t be the normal case.

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      11 months ago

      Hmm I am able to get it all the way to the edge of the tube but I’m getting excited while I’m trying to smash it down there. I think I need a way of staying soft for longer or something. Do you have any advice on that?

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        9 months ago

        One thing that helps for me (but may be highly individual) is anal penetration, it sort of shifts the attention rather quickly. Other than that, cooling and some body lotion might help. Last but not least, I figure it’s a “state of mind” thing.