• TimLovesTech (AuDHD)(he/him)@badatbeing.social
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    6 months ago

    Yep, unless it’s something I find interesting, but even then it also depends how much I have left in my battery for the day. The more I don’t want to do it, the more juice it’s going to drain from my battery.

  • vibinya@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Fortunately, this is something I solved by establishing a set of routines which I do not deviate from. Each day is a repeat with minor variations depending on the day of the week. This helps me keep my place spotless, eliminates any mental energy put towards figuring out what to eat, and makes things like shopping less stressful as I just place the same pickup order each week. The BIG struggle for me is when I make the effort to change my routine for people (friends) to accommodate plans and they cancel on me or try to change them last second. I don’t think they will ever understand how much energy it takes for me to change my day and mindset for them.

    • Wogi@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Holy shit if my routine is impacted it’s like my world unravels.

  • sapient [they/them]@infosec.pub
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    6 months ago

    Yes.

    When I have something i’m thinking about or want to work on, other things - including stuff like feeding myself properly (as I have to cook at least somewhat for economic reasons) - are interruptions and very frustrating. I like my drive to do things I care about and have special interest in but it can lead to self neglect :p

    If I didn’t have such a large appetite, or got something affordable i could prepare and eat that was actually nutritious and filling in a couple minutes, it would be much less annoying ..

    Its not just making food, but that’s a major one.

    • sapient [they/them]@infosec.pub
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      6 months ago

      Also needing to do lots of things like shopping + washing + other stuff at once is stressful because prioritising is frustrating and it can be overwhelming >.<