Y’all discarded them for something I don’t remember, but anyway, good for them!

  • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    Wow, this is actually so similar to me except I ended up identifying as NB

    So I guess long story short I identify as a cis man but reject whatever bullshit society wants to put on me as “masculine” or whatever. Idk what anyone wants to label that as, but I’m a man and I’ll do what I want, and whatever that is I consider manly, because I’m a man and I do it so there.

    This was literally my position almost word for word for a long time

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      It definitely resonated with my partner and apparently was a decent base point for them to consider their gender and come to an entirely different conclusion lol. But it’s funny being a cis guy who went through basically the entire process and just decided “nah I’m good”

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          Oh for sure! I am glad I actually had to confront my thoughts about gender, regardless of the outcome, thanks to my partner. In a better world none of this crap would be forced onto kids and we could just be ourselves without having to first deconstruct everything society says we should be