I have a group of friends who have gone back to normal for the most part. Restaurants, concerts, clubs, bars, etc… One of them tested positive today and that sparked the standard slew of get well messages from the rest of them. All well and good, I’m not gonna sit here and act like we should point and laugh at the sick. However the conversation that followed didn’t sit well with me.

I asked the group if they normally quarantine from the rest of their household when only one gets sick, or if they just wing it. Someone said they stop kissing and sharing food, but stay unmasked and still sleep in the same bed. They were adamant about not sleeping on their couch. (must be a huge inconvenience to sacrifice a little comfort for their health). Anyway, same person proceeds to say that it wouldn’t matter that much due to incubation time. I responded anecdotally that in the past quarantining from my household while sick has worked for for us and kept the healthy people healthy. No response after that.

The conversation continues with someone else who was saying they did the same thing I did, quarantined in their office and slept on the sleeper sofa to keep their partner healthy, AND IT WORKED!!! This person then proceeds to question how they got it in the first place because they are fully remote for work… They would understand if their partner got it because of their on-site job, but couldn’t reason with how they themselves the remote worker would get it. Mind you, all these people indulge in dining indoors at restaurants and bars, going to concerts without masks, running errands without masks… So, I said just that. “Probably restaurants? Honestly anywhere public.”. The conversation ended right there, no one responded to me after that.

The bright side of the whole convo was that someone did eventually chime in and say that “It’s best to assume COVID when you are feeling sick, because even a cold isn’t worth spreading.” Only to be countered by the sick person saying, “if I would have tested positive sooner I would have been wearing a mask or cancelling appointments” Felt sick and didn’t care until the 2 lines showed up on the test.

So yeah, at the end of the day vibes and treats rule the world. No one wants to be told that their incessant need for good vibes and tasty treats is what may have gotten them sick with a highly communicable disease.

It’s really exhausting…

  • rootsbreadandmakka [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    4 months ago

    I don’t understand it, I really just don’t understand it. A couple weeks ago that WSJ article was making the rounds at my work, the one that surprisingly was acknowledging long covid. At least I think it was, I didn’t actually read it, but it lead my boss to, at our weekly meeting, proclaim “you know I hate to say it but at this point it seems to be true - covid really is causing a lot of long term issues in people.” I almost fell out of my chair.

    Yet in the following weeks, no change in behavior. Still walking around the office, no masks. Still meeting in the small room, no masks. I just don’t understand it at all. I mean before this point I was just assuming most people were in the dark regarding the gravity of the covid issue, propagandized into compliance. Yet here are multiple people in my life all coming to the eye-opening realization that, oh shit maybe there’s mroe to this covid thing. And…nothing. Do I have too much faith in people? Are most people just walking around just waiting for someone to tell them what to do? Is the power of convenience and peer pressure really that strong? I mean this isn’t even asking them to do something for other people, this is asking them to do something for themselves. Like, they can’t even wear a mask for selfish reasons? And I’m not even asking them, it was a conclusion they came to on their own - they don’t even know my stance on covid (I’m remote). There was no one influencing their thoughts but themselves. Yet they refuse to change their behavior at all.