like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women

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    18 days ago

    “Think you’re beautif-”

    “I have no interest in men. I will never want to fuck you. Odds are you’re more enthusiastic about fucking someone who looks like you than I am.”

    “Got it got it”

    (30 seconds later)

    “So, uh, you wanna make out”

    It’s really clear you’ve either never presented as femme while outside or never spoken to a man.