like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women


“Think you’re beautif-”
“I have no interest in men. I will never want to fuck you. Odds are you’re more enthusiastic about fucking someone who looks like you than I am.”
“Got it got it”
(30 seconds later)
“So, uh, you wanna make out”
It’s really clear you’ve either never presented as femme while outside or never spoken to a man.