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Cake day: July 18th, 2023
  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoChastity Community@lemmynsfw.com•How do you engage in chastity?English
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    15 days ago

    I’ve been self-locking on and off for several years. I now use a cherry keeper cage that is basically the size of my glans. Sometimes I put it on as foreplay to fapping in the next couple hours. Mostly I try (barrier is comfort) to wear it all-day on days that I wear it. I’d love to be able to wear it as much of the time as possible (eg, 24/7 and only unlock for small periods of time for predefined tasks like routine hygiene). I suppose I’m slowly learning to wear it for longer periods of time. I often but not always unlock and fap/masturbate afterwards - before I go to sleep for example. I’m more interested in the gendering and orgasm control effects of chastity (eg, can’t fap, masturbate, or penetrate anyone and are sub-like) than I am pure orgasm denial. Having a partner who is my keyholder would be a dream come true. I suppose I’m slowly working my way there (hopefully) as I become more confident with who I am, including that chastity might be a sexual non-negotiable for me (not all the time necessarily, but at least some of the time).

    More the 'why' I engage in chastity (content warning: gender dysphoria):

    Chastity is a fun fetish but on a more holistic level, I’m beginning to see my desire to wear my cage as a barometer of gender dysphoria. For example, if I wake up and want to put on my cage right away, I’ll do so but I’m also making a mental note that I’m probably feeling significantly dysphoric and I should address that today beyond just the cage. Because the cage is great but it’s not an all-in-one long-term solution to gender dysphoria for me.

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comOPtoSize Comparison@lemmynsfw.com•Casual park blowEnglish
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    3 months ago

    Thanks for your comment. I’ve taken down photos where people have pointed out image manipulation before, but I’m not convinced in this case. I’m not sure what you mean by big weird rubbery mess. Comparing it with the other shoulder, the outline is different and there are two dark marks on her skin by the straps of her shirt. The first seems to me as plausibly and most parsimoniously explained by a pretty apparent shadow caused by the big PP. I don’t know about the dark marks. And I feel the image quality is too low for me to notice her overall skin quality looking different between elbows. I’m happy to be corrected, but you haven’t yet swayed me

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy Captions@lemmynsfw.com•Would you rather...
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    3 months ago

    A guy coming in my mouth would be sooo hot, which I haven’t actually had even though I’ve given head, and that’s what I’d pick. It feels degrading to me but in the best and hottest way possible. I’d like to taste it. I love the thought of him thrusting in my mouth when he’s close and possibly shooting down my throat too (although I wouldn’t get to taste it in that case)

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comOPtoChastity@lemmynsfw.com•Headless Cherry Keeper reviewEnglish
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    3 months ago

    The poke forward is an issue when flaccid, not erect. I’m a grower vs a shower though. I have a small cherry keeper cage (my aforementioned #1 cage–although it’s not perfect for me). I got the same headlock size for the headless cage that I have for my small cage. Before I rule the headless cage out in theory as a cage fit for long-term wear, I’d like to try a smaller headlock. I haven’t yet investigated this enough, but I’m concerned there might be untenable rub of the headlock against the glans that’d cause irritation prohibiting long-term wear (again, not while erect, just while going about daily wear). With the caveats laid out, I tend to see it as more of a for show/ play/ sex/ masturbation cage for now, as opposed to one suited for long-term wear, but I have more research to do.

    Thanks for the update, I appreciate it :D (I’m not on reddit). Yeah, overall that sounds positive!