• Krauerking
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    6 hours ago

    It’s all bullshit for sure.

    But mostly cause people don’t understand that someone while similar is exactly unlike them. No path or options or thoughts for one person will ever work for another.

    Life is very random and chaotic and luck based. People can think they can suggest something but it will literally never happen again as it did for them. Each person uniquely weaving their way through. It’s also extremely unfair and that’s just a plain fact that can’t be even argued against.

    I find self help books egregious and awful but some people find them comforting and that it helps them feel seen. But no one wants to feel like they will never be truly understood even if it’s an impossibility because we can grab pieces of them and know that.

    Life is unfair. You live and then you die and you get a bunch of free time in the middle to do what you can. I’m sorry it had to happen to you, I’m happy that you get a chance to voice that and I hope you feel the same as often as you can.