“Keep your comments on topic”

If they’re acting out of white privilege and being racist etc. they probably shouldn’t be a member to begin with or if it’s not something too serious they should get a warning.

If they’re taking a position on an issue but doing it in a way that is objectively counter productive to the topic at hand it should be pointed out so that they get back on the relevant topic, this isn’t a race thing it can apply generally. Issues like this also hint at a bad org structure which doesn’t have clear procedures, each discussion should have some people democratically chosen to be “in charge” of the procedure and guide it while intervening whenever there is need to.

On an organisational level this is a product of insufficient structure.

You can work on addressing matters of culture and individual attitudes but that’s a long-game thing and it may not yield results or it may take a long time to yield results at all.

To address this on an organisational level, you want a chairperson and that chairperson to be an assertive moderator.

An agenda is also important as it will introduce and frame the topic for discussion, giving the chair an opportunity to pull people up if they’re way off topic.

Establishing approximate timeframes for each item on the agenda is also important as it puts a degree of pressure on people to be succinct instead of treating the meeting as an opportunity to yap.

A chair will be able to use these timeframes to rein in people who are talking too much - if there is 15 minutes to discuss an item on the agenda and one person has taken up 5 minutes of airspace, the chair can move the discussion on to another person.

It’s a tricky balance to try and strike and it depends on relationships and awareness and communication ability to navigate this stuff effectively and with sensitivity but as general advice if the chair has to continually drag one or two people back to the topic at hand as well as cutting them off because they’re taking up all the time for discussion in meetings then there’s a fair chance that these people will start developing an awareness of their behaviour and, if things go well, they’ll start making improvements without any escalations or the need for other, more direct interventions.

Find that CIA/FBI operations manual on how to disrupt orgs by using infiltrators and turncoats.

Print out and highlight the parts that talk about the specific actions of, nitpicking on specific but insignificant details and what is essentially filibustering.

Pass them around.

This is why I, a white man, do not participate in any organizing and just grill goddammit.

You’re welcome for my solidarity comrades.

long off topic monologues

the sad thing is this is indistinguishable from something a wrecker or a cop would do, but I could also see it being completely sincere behavior. Perhaps institute some kind of time limit.

Don’t you have any officers, old guards or just well respected members to explain this to them? They kind of just seem like yappers and if they don’t stop after being asked politely then they need to be reprimanded and turned away if they fail to stop. If they’re good faith comrades then a good faith discussion will stop it. If they aren’t then you rooted out the problem that was sort of sabotaging your meetings anyway and they needed to go.

You need to figure out facilitation norms as an organization. Some kind of rule about relevancy, time limits, and an empowered facilitator. Frame interventions as a need to remain focused and to empower all voices. Don’t initially present it as a criticism, but as the behavior continues be more critical. Alienate bloviating white boys before the alienate everyone else. OR they might learn a shred of self awareness—I’ve seen it happen before.

Vanguard party. “We are straying off topic, let’s let another conrade have a turn to speak thrn we will get back to that point later”

This isn’t just white guy specific, though it will be more common. Some people just suck up all the air in a room. Having an effective moderator who can step in and politely cut people off/redirect the conversation on topic is a good idea. The following tips will be useful in moderating any kind of discussion, though I’ll admit it’s mainly geared towards groups of 15ish maximum.

(Fuck me, I was looking for a page discussing moderating small group discussions, but thanks to the enshittification of Google and SEO, all I can find is stupid advice for moderating focus groups from consultants. Thanks Google.)

Anyway, it’s helpful to set norms and expectations early. I use the following system as an academic. I have people raise their hand to be put on a “primary” queue. This means they have a unique point or issue to raise. People raise a finger if they have an “immediate response” that’s on topic regarding something the previous “primary” respondent said. You can just work your way down the queues, then, but you can set expectations about now long comments should be at the beginning. You can say “please keep your comments no longer than xyz minutes,” and if people begin to go over you can politely remind them they’ve approached time. If they keep going instead of wrapping it up say something like, “in the interest of fairness and robust discussion I’ve gotta cut you off here to give comrades a chance to respond without also requiring too much time to address everything. Please keep the time limit and respect for your comrades in mind when answering.”

If the discussion is moderated, you can then tweak the queue as needed to allow greater participation. If someone raises their hand a lot and no one else does, very well, but if you see that someone who hasn’t spoken yet raises their hand you can easily say, “in order to hear from as many voices as possible we’re going to go to ___________ next, and then we’ll return to the usual queue.” As long as you don’t overuse or exploit this people generally appreciate and are amenable to the exception.

Can you get the white guys to talk with each other for a little while while the Adults in the Room™ get stuff done?

I think some people just like to talk

And some people, cough cough me, sometimes ramble about things as a coping mechanism for feeling intensely socially awkward in a group

They’re probably not maliciously attempting to exercise cracker privilege, but idk, i don’t know them, but either way it’s probably something that should be discussed with them

Robert’s Rules of Order for meetings.

There was a place I used to go to that had a bit of a problem with this. It ended up becoming less of a problem without any intervention, as the one guy was booted from the group for threatening someone… But what I had suggested to another group member before that point as a potential solution to the “holy hell just shut the fuck up” problem, was an anonymous poll of sorts. I don’t know how this would be done exactly, but it would if nothing else mean that no-one would individually have to come forward to say “shut up”.

What I should mention is that this group was a welfare contractor. No other group I’ve been a part of, be it a support group or a leftist org, has had a problem with this. So that you’re experiencing this points to a structural issue within the org.

Scream SIT DOWN HONKY at the top of your lungs till he leaves.